Would you know who are true monks?  Those who by mortification have brought their will under control, that they no longer have any wish except to obey the precepts and counsels of their Superior. –St. Fulgentius

St. Francis once gave the blessed Egidius full freedom to choose whatever province or monastery he might prefer as a place of residence.  After four days of this liberty, Egidius was surprised at finding himself much troubled in mind.  Then returning to the Saint, he earnestly entreated him to fix his abode for life, for he knew that this liberty would banish all peace from his soul.